Talk:Mocha Ray Cookie/@comment-173.18.252.218-20200820134808/@comment-32094364-20200820144649

I had to edit your comment to remove the swear because I felt this could make for good discussion and did not want to provide censorship of your thoughts, but profanity is generally not allowed on wikia. I hope that's fine. I changed no other text other than removing the single swear.

Anyway, this is definitely an issue I've considered, I did speak with someone else about it at length and I will say in advance I do see identifying with no pronouns as a valid form of identification. However, I will also say that it is much harder to prove a lack of something than it is a quantity of something. While I do think she/her nonbinary could definitely be appropriate and I certainly encourage people to go along with that as they desire, I must say that wikia is for stated information. Unfortunately, in this situation, she/her has been directly stated, which inevitably pushes out "lack of anything" because this game does not implicitly have gender/pronoun sections.

To make this less wordy, basically...because I have to go off either nothing or something, and I've been given something, it takes out the other somethings in the process.

Now, if this were one of many other games, they would off the bat say something like "they/them she/her" "she/her nonbinary" "female-leaning nonbinary" etc, but because this...isn't that, the slot I've been given is flat female for now unfortunately BECAUSE there are no other pronouns used. It's hard to prove absence of evidence without evidence of absence.

I do hope you understand that I am not trying to label this out of malice or lack of understanding, I do spend...honestly much longer than I probably should...trying to make things as logical and reasonable as I can while still trying to acknowledge that there are lgbt+ characters in CR. And often I wish it really was as easy as black and white and devsis just said things in plain words. That is not the hand I was dealt though, so I try my best. I am genuinely sorry for any offense or trouble that comes from it and I must say to please headcanon whatever you want regardless of what is put on a silly wikia page. Genuinely. And if anyone tries to give you grief for that, they're the worst kind of person.